How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 23.06.2025 00:32
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Losing 20kg is a goal.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Making more friends is a goal.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
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Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
What I need from you?
How do I build rapport with anybody?
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Does not procrastinate.
How did you know you weren't the narc?
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Procrastinates a lot.
That's it for today.
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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
What historical event or person have you surprised hasn't been made into a Hollywood movie yet?
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Ask yourself:
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.